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9. Medicine

Whenever I feel really, unpleasantly restless, I have found that it is good medicine to just start cleaning the house and clearing out old stuff.

Making order and focus in my surroundings tend to gradually pull me back to a feeling of order and focus in my mind.

At the very least, I will feel some sort of accomplishment.… Read more

8. Never nothing

I donated about 35 dollars this evening to the Red Cross’ efforts to save children and everybody else in Syria. I just couldn’t stand reading about it in the news anymore.

Aleppo is falling – even more than it has fallen before, and in so many dark ways.

Thousands of innocent people trapped in there, like a cage of hell.… Read more

7. Enemy of Coffee

Today I decided to seriously-now-or-never cut my coffee to one cup per day max – and keep it that way.

The ‘mental race’ I described yesterday may be natural, whatever the cause of the flickers of anxiety:

… my upcoming fatherhood …

… my general sensitivity …

… sharp shards from a broken psyche of 11 years ago …

But it is a truth, I’ve read over and over again:

If you want mental calm, you Don’t.… Read more

6. Just like Tivoli

Went with my niece and Char on our yearly trip to the great Tivoli here in the city.

She is 6 years old, my niece, and ready to ride the roller coaster 8 times during such a day, 5 in a row.

She would’ve wanted to do it more times, if we had not run out of time.… Read more

5. New Order

I had difficulty sleeping in the early hours, as so often these days.

My mind was racing, feelings with echoes of anxiety throwing my focus around like a pinball – and very much away from sleep.

I think it’s a combination of old scars from the days when I was hospitalized perhaps further back, and natural nervousness about becoming a father – a major life change.… Read more

4. Only Results

I went downtown again today – to the office AAK has offered prospective entrepreneurs, without or without registration anywhere, to network and work for 3 months.

A new group of unemployed, receiving insurance benefits, are given the chance to mingle with ‘the real entrepreneurs’ there. I am one of them.

That is part of the pitch when the insurance organisation, AAK, sold the new office space: You see, we could get “inspiration” from the pros!… Read more

3. No Longer Small Things

As I took the metropolitan train downtown, I remembered how last night we had a roleplaying game session online.

Yes, roleplaying. It’s still a thing. For us, at least.

This was not like the old times in our childhood town, when we met around a table in a friend’s attic.

This was pure bits audio over the Internet, but even purer socializing and definitely the purest fun – like a band who has come together to play music for 25 years.… Read more