• 61. Investment Decisions

    February 4, 2017

    There are exceptions, but the rule is probably that it is dangerous to confuse the two - colleagues and friends. So invest some time in your friendships, not just your career. It will serve you well when your career tanks. Which it will on occasion. But friendship - if it is true - will not.
  • 56. Stories for a Rainy Day in Lima

    January 30, 2017

    That's what a friend's letter feels like, no matter how it is written. It has more than one dimension in it, and each and every one of them feels like a special surprise party that your friend had arranged just for you.
  • 46. The Formula for Lasting Friendship

    January 21, 2017

    The desire, ability and will to communicate regularly - is a sine qua non in any friendship. However, you decide how much it means to you, vis-a-vis other factors.
  • 35. Presence

    January 9, 2017

    The best support for a friend is your own presence.
  • 12. The Blessed Curse

    December 17, 2016

    Certain friendships and certain stories, have a very powerful effect on us in childhood and we keep coming back to them, hoping to find the heart from long ago in them. Even when our minds tell us it’s long gone.It is a testament to the power of the heart which is both a blessing and a curse. It is a blessing because the power of heartful experiences by and large is what makes life feel full and rich. It is a curse because the initial experience can be so powerful that it keeps us locked in. It keeps us looking for the faint glow of the original experience. It keeps us looking for new embers which might use to fan the old flame ... ... long after we are supposed to let it go and kindle a new fire in another place. But on average, perhaps, it is a blessing that remains. For that is where it started.
  • 3. No Longer Small Things

    December 8, 2016

    Remembering moments of pure friendship is necessary to swim that extra mile in the grey drone of everyday life.